Listen

....one must listen close to the words spoken or read what is written...the importance of that concept

The definition of Listen is, Take notice of and act on what someone says. The importance of this is so that you do not miss anything that is said, so that you may carry threw with any instructions that may have been given. Also in listening you do not misunderstand what is said. It is also important to not read more into what was said. You should not make sugestions upon what you think you heard, or read, it may be inaproprate to do so. Sometimes simple instruction is just that simple instruction.

Hopeless

Today i think i give up hope. Once again i have had my hopes up that there was something in this lifestyle for me. That finally it had come, that i could be my true self, that i was once again whole. I had something to look forward to. But Low and Behold.....I get told that although i am this awsome submissive who has a lot to offer am not compatible to their needs. Aren't you suppose to help your submissive learn to be compatible to your needs? So as of today I am done looking for a Dom or Domme or Master or any thing of the like. It is just not there for me. So i will sit on the sidelines, offer help when I can and share my experiences with others. That is about all I can do. I refuse to hope again just to be" let down gently" I am tired of having my heart played with either intentionaly or unintentionaly.
no ones little pet

A Love Letter

My Sweet and Wonderful Master,

I can not begin to tell you what you mean to me. You have given of yourself as much as you have taken from me. I know in your wonderful and complex mind you are wondering "What have I taken from you? I have given you every thing."
And I reply to you Dear Sweet Master, that you have taken away my ability to self destruct, you have taken away my self doubt, You have taken away my insecurities and have allowed me the room to grow within myself. You have taken away my self pity and turned me into a secure productive person. You have taken away my ability to become a doormat and replaced it with Confidence and self reliance. In return my Sweet Master, I give you respect,loyalty,and honor and most of all I give you my love and devotion, and my gift of submission. This you have earned with your stern ways, your kind heart and your wisdom. Thank You for choosing to share your world with me.
with humble love and devotion,

your pet

Top 10 Things You'll Never Hear a sub say to their Master

Top 10 Things You'll Never Hear a sub say to their Master

How was I supposed to know I wasn't supposed to put your leather pants in the washer?
Yeah, right... SPANK THIS!
Tomorrow night, I get to tie you up, right?
God, you Dom's think the world should bow before you!
And just what do you think you are going to do with that paddle?
Sorry, I got a date tomorrow night. Some other time, perhaps?
Spanking? I-THINK-NOT!
Who died and left you in charge?
Do your own damn laundry!
And the #1 thing you will never hear a sub say to their Master...

What do I look like, your maid?

You Might Be A Wannabe (Doms)

You Might Be A Wannabe (Doms)

If you ever use the phrase "A real sub wouldn't have a problem doing that"... you might be a Wannabe If you think the word "submissive" means the same thing as "easy"... you might be a Wannabe

If you think leading your sub around by a leash in the supermarket is appropriate entertainment for everyone... you might be a Wannabe

If you think it's perfectly acceptable to address all submissives as "slut"... you might be a Wannabe

If you think SSC stands for "See Submissives Cower"...you might be a Wannabe

If your vanity plate reads "MSTR-2-U"... you might be a Wannabe

If you enter a chat room and command all the subs to call you Sir... you might be a Wannabe

If you're trying to book a flight to GOR... you might be a Wannabe

If you think all subs put out on the first date... you might be a Wannabe

If you think the only purpose for nipple piercing is to have a place to hang your car keys... you might be a Wannabe

If you think the GOR novels are based in fact... you might be a Wannabe

If you can't understand why a sub refuses to meet you for the first time alone at your place... you might be a Wannabe

If you think limits are nothing you need to consider seriously... you might be a Wannabe

If you think safewords are for sissies... you might be a Wannabe

If you think placing a "Sir" or "Master" in front of your nick name automatically makes you a Dom... you might be a Wannabe

If you think R/L is just like cyber... you might be a Wannabe

If you think using lube for fisting or anal play is too kind... you might be a Wannabe (or a really mean sadist)

If you have to constantly refer to the owner's manual to use your toys... you might be a Wannabe

If you think Dom's can't show their feelings and need to be cold and aloof... you might be a Wannabe

If you have any reason to fear ATF Agents could confiscate your toys... you might be a Wannabe

If you think the KGB Interrogation Manual is the definitive "how to" book for BDSM... you might be a Wannabe.

If you think sterile needles for play piercing are too expensive to only use once... you might be a Wannabe

If household items don't inspire you (wooden spoons, clothespins, etc.)... you might be a Wannabe

If you think electricity play consists of plug in socket/exposed wires touching sub... you might be a Wannabe

If you think a bullwhip is the best choice for a warm up tool... you might be a Wannabe

You Might Be A Wannabe (Subs)

You Might Be A Wannabe (Subs)

If you don't know what "R/L" means... you might be a Wannabe

If you think it's not necessary to communicate what you need or want to your Dom because what you want is not important... you might be a Wannabe

If you've never considered the possibility that your online Master is really a 14-year-old named Jason... you might be a Wannabe.

If you think being collared and spanked online qualifies you as an experienced sub... you might be a Wannabe.

If you think you have no limits... you might be a Wannabe

If you think using your safeword means you're not a "real" sub... you might be a Wannabe

If you consent to wearing a Dom/Domme's brand at your first R/L session with Him or Her... you might be a Wannabe

If you think bruises and broken limbs are standard bdsm play....you might be a Wannabe

If you think you must have total respect for anyone who calls himself/herself Dom/Domme... you might be a Wannabe

If you think the best sub is the one who can stand the most pain... you might be a Wannabe

If you think R/L is just like cyber... you might be a Wannabe

If you consent your first live meet with a Dom/me without using a safety net... you might be a Wannabe

If you think being a sub is all about being abused... you might be a Wannabe

If you think CBT means "Come and Bring Toys"... you might be a Wannabe

If you have to remove your collar so your Master can walk his dog... you might be a Wannabe (and your Dom is really cheap)

If you think sub-space is the cage a Dom keeps His or Her sub in... you might be a Wannabe

If you think enemas are only given for medicinal purposes...you might be a Wannabe

If you think submission means never saying "no"... you might be a Wannabe

If you have to spit out your chewing tobacco before you can be gagged... you might be a redneck as well as a Wannabe

a joke

One day Mom was cleaning junior's room and in the closet she found a bondage S+M magazine. This was highly upsetting for her.
She hid the magazine until his father got home and showed it to him.
He looked at it and handed it back to her without a word.
She finally asked him, " Well what should we do about this?"
Dad looked at her and said, "Well I don't think you should spank him."